Confused about your marriage?
Whether you stay or go, I can help you find peace with your decision.
Before moving further on my website, it is important to ensure we are the right fit to work together. These are my must-haves for clients:
If this sounds like you, continue exploring to learn more. You are already on your way to the clarity and peace you are seeking.
- You are prepared to make a minimum investment of $2,000.
- You are ready to dedicate 8+ hours a week to your healing.
- You believe in yourself and your potential.
- You identify with having unresolved complex trauma.
- You are open to exploring through the lens of parts work.
- You Are willing to stay sober throughout our work together.
- Your partner has not indicated they are filing for divorce.
- You HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED PHYSICAL VIOLENCE IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
CPTSD MEDICINE
Do you find yourself giving away your power in moments of confusion?
Rebuilding Trust Within: A simple guide to reconnecting to your inner authority
CYCLEBREAKERS UNITE
You have always felt a pull toward a magical realm of life—a sense that there is more than what meets the eye. You were the kid checking out the numerology book from the library, the mom choosing battery-free toys to nurture creativity and connection. Yet, that vision of a Love House—a life full of joy, creativity, and purpose—feels buried beneath layers of trauma, self-doubt, and conditioning. The weight of a strained relationship and the responsibility of raising your kids leaves you wondering if that magic is even possible anymore. The things you once believed would heal with time are only growing heavier, and you’re left searching for a way forward.
When life feels overwhelming and clarity seems out of reach, it is tempting to look for answers outside yourself—to focus on fixing the relationship or waiting for circumstances to change. But true transformation begins within. A healing sabbatical offers you the space, tools, and support to focus entirely on your inner world—to rebuild trust in yourself, reconnect with your life's purpose, and find the clarity and strength needed to make a decision about your marriage, whether you stay or go. Healing yourself first is not just an act of self-care; it is the foundation for the life you envision, for yourself and for the children counting on you.
WHAT WE BELIEVE
Relationships Come Last in CPTSD Resolution
That is the core belief here. True healing begins within, and relationships thrive only when the foundation is strong.
In a world that often urges us to “fix” relationships first, it is no wonder so many people feel stuck in unhealthy dynamics. But focusing on relationships without addressing the fundamentals of self-belief, trust, curriculum, and leadership only prolongs the cycle of pain and confusion.
I believe there is a better way—a way that prioritizes building the inner scaffolding required to approach relationships from a place of clarity, strength, and peace.
When we focus first on self-belief, rebuild trust in ourselves, evolve with a potent healing curriculum, and develop leadership in our own lives, we create the conditions for healthy relationships to emerge naturally.
This is the work of healing at the deepest level, and it is the path to lasting change.
That is the core belief here. True healing begins within, and relationships thrive only when the foundation is strong.
In a world that often urges us to “fix” relationships first, it is no wonder so many people feel stuck in unhealthy dynamics. But focusing on relationships without addressing the fundamentals of self-belief, trust, curriculum, and leadership only prolongs the cycle of pain and confusion.
We believe there is a better way—a way that prioritizes building the inner scaffolding required to approach relationships from a place of clarity, strength, and peace.
When we focus first on self-belief, rebuild trust in ourselves, evolve with a potent healing curriculum, and develop leadership in our own lives, we create the conditions for healthy relationships to emerge naturally.
This is the work of healing at the deepest level, and it is the path to lasting change.
what they're saying:
I was sick and tired of repeat pattern-looping. Through my collaboration with Tanner, I successfully reached the other side of CPTSD. I now experience the sensation of operating with squeaky clean energy and a newfound sense of self. Tanner was an answer to my prayers.
— Linda S.
I came here feeling lost and hopeless about ever healing the deep attachment trauma that had shaped my life. I thought all the personal work I was doing would only help me manage the “symptoms.” But when the 24|25 Journey began, I realized I had been working with an incomplete set of tools—and for the first time, I saw the potential to heal myself for good. Now, I feel more balanced and confident. My habitual reactivity in a key relationship has nearly vanished, and I feel lighter in my body than ever before. This is only the beginning, and I am excited to see what unfolds next.
— Amy B.
Three years ago, I found myself at the lowest point in my life. I miraculously stumbled upon Tanner's podcast, and it changed my life in ways I still struggle to put into words. Tanner's contributions to the healing field are some of the most sacred initiations I have ever experienced. The CPTSD Medicine Protocol will always be one of the greatest gifts I could have ever received.
— Mariam B.
From broken relationships and a toxic work environment, Tanner helped me befriend the most aggressive and violent parts of me. She saved my life. So much has changed internally and externally since working with her. I would not be able to do all of this had I not met Tanner.
— Dana G.
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