If it has, because of the complex trauma you carry, you do not have to stay stuck. I can help you liberate yourself from painful cycles—so you no longer repeat the same fights, relive old wounds, or stay trapped in patterns that are not yours to keep.

LOVE WAS NEVER MEANT TO HURT.

Picture this: a dinner table filled with laughter, the warmth of belonging woven into every conversation. Waking up next to a partner you feel deeply safe with—or waking up alone, knowing with certainty that you are exactly where you are meant to be. Friendships that feel like home, choices made from deep, unshakable self-trust, and the kind of inner security that means no matter what life brings, you will not abandon yourself ever again.

WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE WHEN YOU STEP INTO THIS WORK

Healing does not happen by chance. It is a commitment, a journey you choose to take. The HouseHolder’s Way is a living path of Divine Restoration, guiding CycleBreakers toward relationships that feel safe, true, and deeply aligned. This is not a quick fix. It is a way of life where you learn to create a stable, nourishing home.





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As a former university professor of applied developmental psychology and a Level 3 Internal Family Systems practitioner, I founded CPTSD Medicine to guide CycleBreakers through the sacred journey of unburdening trauma energies. As HouseHolders, we are not here to escape life. We are here to meet it fully. This work anchors a legacy of love, transforming our homes into sanctuaries of peace, power, and presence. If you feel The Call, we are waiting for you.

A SURVIVOR, JUST LIKE YOU.

Hi, I’m Tanner.

what they're saying:

I was sick and tired of repeat pattern-looping. Through my collaboration with Tanner, I successfully reached the other side of CPTSD. I now experience the sensation of operating with squeaky clean energy and a newfound sense of self. Tanner was an answer to my prayers.

— Linda S. 

I came here feeling lost and hopeless about ever healing the deep attachment trauma that had shaped my life. I thought all the personal work I was doing would only help me manage the “symptoms.” But when the 24|25 Journey began, I realized I had been working with an incomplete set of tools—and for the first time, I saw the potential to heal myself for good. Now, I feel more balanced and confident. My habitual reactivity in a key relationship has nearly vanished, and I feel lighter in my body than ever before. This is only the beginning, and I am excited to see what unfolds next.

— Amy B. 

Three years ago, I found myself at the lowest point in my life. I miraculously stumbled upon Tanner's podcast, and it changed my life in ways I still struggle to put into words. Tanner's contributions to the healing field are some of the most sacred initiations I have ever experienced. The CPTSD Medicine Protocol will always be one of the greatest gifts I could have ever received.

— Mariam B. 

From broken relationships and a toxic work environment, Tanner helped me befriend the most aggressive and violent parts of me. She saved my life. So much has changed internally and externally since working with her. I would not be able to do all of this had I not met Tanner. 

— Dana G.

READY TO BREAK FREE FROM INHERITED TRAUMA?

You do not have to go through this alone. If you are suffering in the heartache of a relationship in crisis, there is another way. You can step out of the confusion and onto an initiatory path that clears the way for relationships that do not hurt.

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