Created for high-achieving professionals who look functional on the outside but feel hijacked by trauma patterns in relationships and decision-making.

Unlock the leadership, wisdom, and discernment trauma could never take from you.

This is the decision to stop letting CPTSD organize your life, and to make efficient progress toward your “Had CPTSD” reality.


What if instead of managing CPTSD symptoms indefinitely, you stepped into one complete container designed to resolve complex trauma at the root?

This is what it looks like to commit to resolving CPTSD, not managing it. ❤️

Build the foundations of secure attachment from the inside out.

Develop the internal leadership required for sustained stability.

Bring every aspect of your healing into one integrated, longer-term container.

Follow a structured pathway designed to take you to the other side of CPTSD.

Here are common experiences many of us share before we resolve our CPTSD.

If Any of This Feels Familiar

Betrayal and Abandonment

Give-to-Get Patterns

Emotional Spiraling

Chase and Avoid Dynamics

You are moving through a painful ending you did not expect. The relationship unraveled quickly, and you now find yourself holding the pieces while feeling panicked about having to do this alone.

You give too much in relationships hoping to be chosen. Over time, resentment builds as your needs go unmet. You may sense that something is fundamentally off, even as you try to repair or compensate for it.

When pressure enters the relationship, your system destabilizes. You may feel confused or ashamed by how intense your reactions feel inside relationships that swing between closeness and harm.

You move between longing for connection and feeling overwhelmed by it. You want closeness, but long-term accountability feels heavy or unsafe. You may have been labeled selfish or cold, even though that does not reflect your inner experience.

+ Self-Led: restoring inner authority and personal power

The container is designed to support daily engagement while also creating targeted activations that surface your specific growth edges.

+ Comprehensive & Holistic: integrating healing across your whole life

This approach weaves real-life application into one cohesive process you live, not just learn.

+ Root-Cause: resolving trauma at its source, not managing symptoms.

Through structured curriculum and intentional one-on-one work, we identify and unburden trauma-driven Parts. 

Inside Happily Ever After, your CPTSD Resolution is supported through three essential pillars:

What You Receive Inside the Container

The CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol

Group Experiences

1:1 IFS Sessions with Me

Weekly group experiences include coaching calls, co-working sessions, and facilitated breathwork and Parts Work. You are not healing in isolation. You are growing in community while experiencing steady, meaningful change alongside others who can hold this work with you.

You also receive individual Internal Family Systems sessions with me for expert facilitation, precision guidance, and direct support as your system reorganizes. These sessions ensure the work stays clean, contained, and properly integrated.

You receive full access to the complete CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol, including the printed curriculum mailed directly to your home. The material is also distilled into immersive healing experiences through the five System Updates, so you can engage the work at the intellectual depth and intensity you desire.
You are trained to work directly with your own system. Your service provider is no longer the limiting factor.

Your investment for Happily Ever After?

I know this is a significant investment, and I want your decision to feel as safe as possible. That’s why there are two layers of risk reduction built into Happily Ever After:

The Love It or Leave It Guarantee — Commit to the first three months. If you discover the container isn’t the right fit, or you’ve already received what you came for, you can leave with no further obligation.

The Baseline Deal — At enrollment we lock in your baseline using established screeners. If you complete the program in full and your scores don’t shift downward, I’ll return your investment.

Two promises. One outcome: your healing is measurable and your investment is protected.

Upfront - 2 payments of $3,000 (total $6,000)
Monthly - 6 payments of $1,150 (total $6,900)

APPLY HERE

Begin by sharing your story with me and what is calling you into this work right now. I personally read every application and hold each one with deep care. If this container feels aligned, I will invite you to a private 1:1 conversation with me.

This is a focused, relational conversation where we clarify what is happening in your system, name what has not worked, and explore what is now ready to change. The session is designed to bring relief and clear next steps for your next chapter.

This call offers personal orientation to the full Happily Ever After experience, along with exclusive success lessons to help you understand how the work unfolds and how to engage it in a way that truly supports your CPTSD Resolution.

How Entry Into Happily Ever After Works

APPLY HERE →

Happily Ever After enrolls on the first of each month as space becomes available. The container runs continuously. When it is full, I maintain a waitlist and offer the next available opening.

Happily Ever After is organized around updating the internal systems that create those symptoms in the first place.

How CPTSD Resolution Actually Happens Inside Happily Ever After

Most CPTSD treatment options approaches focus on symptom management.

Your unaltered emotional state is the most valid and trustworthy input for this kind of healing.

You are able to do this work sober.

06.

It is not all your fault, but your patterns shape your outcomes. That is your power.

You understand everything is a co-creation.

05.

This may mean releasing what once felt essential. That is the level of transformation required here.

You are willing to let go.

04.

Without this core belief, every step we take together will activate resistance instead of healing.

You believe you can change.

03.

This is not surface work. Healing at this level requires focused time, energy, and space.

You can commit time to this work.

02.

Stretching beyond your means creates stress. That places too much pressure on both of us.

You can afford the tuition.

01.

Before working together, I need to know...

My first responsibility is to serve only those I know can benefit from this work. I want to be sure your healing is always supported in the safest possible way.

✖️   Active mental health crisis
✖️   Unstable work, housing, or finances
✖️   Ongoing abuse
✖️   Regular plant medicine use
✖️   Intense collapse state


Who this is not for

frequently asked questions

You’re right — this is a much bigger expense than paying a small co-pay for therapy through insurance. That’s why you want to feel deeply aligned with this investment before making it. My suggestion is to listen to the podcast and implement the guidance I share there, and purchase the HouseHolder TouchStones to use for a few months. Then ask yourself: does this work for me? That way, you’re not guessing. You already know the training (not therapy) approach makes a real difference.

Only you can decide to make resolving your CPTSD a top-three priority. If your life is maxed out right now, take a few weeks to begin saying no to optional commitments and clearing space in your calendar. The foundation for success in Happily Ever After is space. If you don’t have it yet, create it before you invest.

I’ve built an application process from five years of experience filling containers responsibly. Your answers, plus our Fresh Start Session, will help us both determine if this is the right fit. My promise is simple: I will never accept you as a student if another provider or approach would serve you better.

You do. This training is about learning to support yourself. CPTSD Medicine is built on the philosophy of ending the era of outsourcing your healing. I will care for you, but I am not responsible for you. If you need someone else to take responsibility for your healing, or you’re not ready to transition from the therapy mindset to the training mindset, we are not a good fit to work together.

It depends on how much you put in, how strongly you believe in yourself, and how willing you are to lean in with vulnerability. If you’re devoted, believe in yourself, and engage fully in our 1:1 sessions and group support, you can expect rapid transformation. Your baseline screener scores will shift in noticeable ways. Continue implementing what you learn — whether by re-signing for another six months or working independently — and you’ll move toward durable resolution of your CPTSD.

No. This is exactly why you need the group. I stopped offering 1:1 work outside of a group container because the group experience is essential to resolving CPTSD. What comes up in a group setting doesn’t emerge in 1:1, and those moments are critical training grounds for releasing trauma energies.

"After years of feeling emotionally unsafe, Tanner provided practical tools that have forever bridged me back to inner stability."

"Tanner set me on the path to reclaiming my power and my soul's purpose in this lifetime, and I cannot thank her enough for that priceless gift."

"The unburdening techniques I learned from Tanner brought immediate emotional relief."