Created for high-achieving professionals who look functional on the outside but feel hijacked by trauma patterns in relationships and decision-making.
This is the exact process I used to no longer qualify for a borderline personality disorder diagnosis, and the same method I use to train therapists to work effectively with CPTSD.
Inside Happily Ever After, you are supported through five immersive learning paths, live group coaching, direct access to me, and a private off-social community, all anchored by the CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol delivered to your home.
What if instead of managing CPTSD symptoms indefinitely, you stepped into one complete container designed to resolve complex trauma at the root?
This is what it looks like to commit to resolving CPTSD, not managing it. ❤️
Build the foundations of secure attachment from the inside out.
Develop the internal leadership required for stability.
Bring every aspect of your healing into one integrated, long-term container.
Follow a structured pathway designed to take you to the other side of CPTSD.
Here are common experiences many of us share before we resolve our CPTSD.
If Any of This Feels Familiar
Betrayal and Abandonment
Give-to-Get Patterns
Emotional Spiraling
Chase and Avoid Dynamics
You are moving through a painful ending you did not expect. The relationship unraveled quickly, and you now find yourself holding the pieces while feeling panicked about having to do this alone.
You give too much in relationships hoping to be chosen. Over time, resentment builds as your needs go unmet. You may sense that something is fundamentally off, even as you try to repair or compensate for it.
When pressure enters the relationship, your system destabilizes. You may feel confused or ashamed by how intense your reactions feel inside relationships that swing between closeness and harm.
You move between longing for connection and feeling overwhelmed by it. You want closeness, but long-term accountability feels heavy or unsafe. You may have been labeled selfish or cold, even though that does not reflect your inner experience.
+ Self-Led: restoring inner authority and personal power
The container is designed to support daily engagement while also creating targeted activations that surface your specific growth edges.
+ Holistic: integrating healing across your whole life
This approach weaves real-life application into one cohesive process you live, not just learn.
+ Root-Cause: resolving trauma at its source, not managing symptoms.
Through structured curriculum and intentional one-on-one work, we identify and unburden trauma-driven Parts.
Inside Happily Ever After, your CPTSD Resolution is supported through three essential pillars:
Your investment for Happily Ever After?
I know this is a significant investment, and I want your decision to feel as safe as possible. That’s why there are two layers of risk reduction built into Happily Ever After:
The Love It or Leave It Guarantee — Commit to the first three months. If you discover the container isn’t the right fit, or you’ve already received what you came for, you can leave with no further obligation.
The Baseline Deal — At enrollment we lock in your baseline using established screeners. If you complete the program in full and your scores don’t shift downward, I’ll return your investment.
Two promises. One outcome: your healing is measurable and your investment is protected.
Upfront - 2 payments of $3,000 (total $6,000)
Monthly - 6 payments of $1,150 (total $6,900)
Your unaltered emotional state is the most valid and trustworthy input for this kind of healing.
You are able to do this work sober.
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It is not all your fault, but your patterns shape your outcomes. That is your power.
You understand everything is a co-creation.
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This may mean releasing what once felt essential. That is the level of transformation required here.
You are willing to let go.
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Without this core belief, every step we take together will activate resistance instead of healing.
You believe you can change.
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This is not surface work. Healing at this level requires focused time, energy, and space.
You can commit time to this work.
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Stretching beyond your means creates stress. That places too much pressure on both of us.
You can afford the tuition.
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Before working together, I need to know...
Clear, skill-based, heartbreak resolved at the root.
I hold the structure.
You bring the devotion.
My first responsibility is to serve only those I know can benefit from this work. I want to be sure your healing is always supported in the safest possible way.
✖️ Active crisis
✖️ Unstable housing or money
✖️ Ongoing abuse
✖️ Plant medicine use
✖️ Intense collapse state
Who this is not for
Six months from today, you are making decisions like a badass CycleBreaker. You stay only where you are chosen, and you know your value in every cell of your body. You set the standard for how you are treated, and this level of personal power is setting you free.
With 6 to 10 hours a week, you can move through the entire program in six months. Immerse yourself in all 5 Learning Experiences at the pace and order you desire; they are all waiting for you. Have questions? No worries, just ask on our next coaching call or in your one-on-one session.
Click the Apply Here button below and take 15 minutes to complete your application. Within five days I will review it and schedule your Validation Call. Once your start date is set and your enrollment fee is paid, you are ready to begin.
What is the process to get started?
frequently asked questions
06. I’m nervous about being in a group. Do you just offer 1:1 without the group?
05. What kind of results can I realistically expect?
04. If this isn’t therapy, is it safe for me? Who supports me if I get triggered?
03. How do I know if I’m the right fit for this container?
02. I already feel overwhelmed with work and life. How will I actually fit this in?
01. This feels really expensive compared to therapy or other programs I’ve tried. How do I know it’s worth the investment?
You’re right — this is a much bigger expense than paying a small co-pay for therapy through insurance. That’s why you want to feel deeply aligned with this investment before making it. My suggestion is to listen to the podcast and implement the guidance I share there, and purchase the HouseHolder TouchStones to use for a few months. Then ask yourself: does this work for me? That way, you’re not guessing. You already know the training (not therapy) approach makes a real difference.
Only you can decide to make resolving your CPTSD a top-three priority. If your life is maxed out right now, take a few weeks to begin saying no to optional commitments and clearing space in your calendar. The foundation for success in Happily Ever After is space. If you don’t have it yet, create it before you invest.
I’ve built an application process from five years of experience filling containers responsibly. Your answers, plus our Validation Call, will help us both determine if this is the right fit. My promise is simple: I will never accept you as a student if another provider or approach would serve you better.
You do. This training is about learning to support yourself. CPTSD Medicine is built on the philosophy of ending the era of outsourcing your healing. I will care for you, but I am not responsible for you. If you need someone else to take responsibility for your healing, or you’re not ready to transition from the therapy mindset to the training mindset, we are not a good fit to work together.
It depends on how much you put in, how strongly you believe in yourself, and how willing you are to lean in with vulnerability. If you’re devoted, believe in yourself, and engage fully in our 1:1 sessions and group support, you can expect rapid transformation. Your baseline screener scores will shift in noticeable ways. Continue implementing what you learn — whether by re-signing for another six months or working independently — and you’ll move toward durable resolution of your CPTSD.