This process is the exact method I used to no longer qualify for a borderline personality disorder diagnosis, 
and it’s precisely how I train therapists to work effectively with CPTSD.

Happily Ever After is made up of 5 immersive learning experiences, your own personal copy of the CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol mailed straight to your home, twice-weekly group coaching calls, unlimited 1:1 sessions with me, and a small, private off social media community of young professionals just like you, ready to resolve CPTSD permanently and stop making life’s most consequential decisions in survival mode.






+ Video learning that you can take in while washing the dishes, folding laundry, etc.

+ Off social community of cheerleaders and supporters ready to witness everything you are moving through

+ Personalized guidance from Tanner customized to your exact situation and particular needs

+ A physical copy of 464-page CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol, outlining the entire CPTSD Resolution treatment plan

+ Assignments that don't just improve your daily life, but help you heal through it

+ Weekly activities and take-action challenges to keep you inspired and focused

You'll have access to...

What a Week Inside Happily Ever After Looks Like

But how does all of this actually fit into my life?

Your investment for Happily Ever After?

I know this is a significant investment, and I want your decision to feel as safe as possible. That’s why there are two layers of risk reduction built into Happily Ever After:

The Love It or Leave It Guarantee — Commit to the first three months. If you discover the container isn’t the right fit, or you’ve already received what you came for, you can leave with no further obligation.

The Baseline Deal — At enrollment we lock in your baseline using established screeners. If you complete the program in full and your scores don’t shift downward, I’ll return your investment.

Two promises. One outcome: your healing is measurable and your investment is protected.

Upfront - 2 payments of $3,000
Monthly - 6 payments of $1,150

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Clear, skill-based, heartbreak resolved at the root.

I hold the structure.
You bring the devotion.

My first responsibility is to serve only those I know can benefit from this work. I want to be sure your healing is always supported in the safest possible way.

✖️   Active crisis
✖️   Unstable housing or money
✖️   Ongoing abuse
✖️   Plant medicine use
✖️   Pharmaceutical dependence
✖️   Intense depression or collapse state


Who this is not for

Let’s face it, you might have evidence that you are not good in love. You are ready to build new evidence, and I’ll be right by your side coaching you through it.

Plus, prompts and practices to rebuild trust in yourself.

I learned these the hard way, and now I want to hand you the insights I wish I had from the start.

The Most Common Trauma Traps (& How to Avoid Them)

Get variations you can practice daily to interrupt patterns and begin creating a safer environment for the people you love.

The CycleBreaker Practices That Healed My Family Dynamics

Because you'll want to lead yourself during your most triggered states like a pro. Let's get you prepared to never lose control again following my step-by-step process.

Unburdening Trauma Energies 101

I will personally teach you how to amplify your natural magic so you become a pure, potent match for the love you desire.

How to Locate Your Most Magnetizing Energy:

Yes, I’m giving it all away here because I don’t want you to carry the same regret I do.

The mistake that cost me my relationship…

Here are the teachings only available inside Happily Ever After…

Six months from today, you are making decisions like a badass CycleBreaker. You stay only where you are chosen, and you know your value in every cell of your body. You set the standard for how you are treated, and this level of personal power is setting you free.

With 6 to 10 hours a week, you can move through the entire program in six months. Immerse yourself in all 5 Learning Experiences at the pace and order you desire; they are all waiting for you. Have questions? No worries, just ask on our next coaching call or in your one-on-one session.

Click the Apply Here button below and take 15 minutes to complete your application. Within five days I will review it and schedule your Validation Call. Once your start date is set and your enrollment fee is paid, you are ready to begin.

What is the process to get started?

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frequently asked questions

06. I’m nervous about being in a group. Do you just offer 1:1 without the group?

05. What kind of results can I realistically expect?

04. If this isn’t therapy, is it safe for me? Who supports me if I get triggered?

03. How do I know if I’m the right fit for this container?

02. I already feel overwhelmed with work and life. How will I actually fit this in?

01.  This feels really expensive compared to therapy or other programs I’ve tried. How do I know it’s worth the investment?

You’re right — this is a much bigger expense than paying a small co-pay for therapy through insurance. That’s why you want to feel deeply aligned with this investment before making it. My suggestion is to listen to the podcast and implement the guidance I share there, and purchase the HouseHolder TouchStones to use for a few months. Then ask yourself: does this work for me? That way, you’re not guessing. You already know the training (not therapy) approach makes a real difference.

Only you can decide to make resolving your CPTSD a top-three priority. If your life is maxed out right now, take a few weeks to begin saying no to optional commitments and clearing space in your calendar. The foundation for success in Happily Ever After is space. If you don’t have it yet, create it before you invest.

I’ve built an application process from five years of experience filling containers responsibly. Your answers, plus our Validation Call, will help us both determine if this is the right fit. My promise is simple: I will never accept you as a student if another provider or approach would serve you better.

You do. This training is about learning to support yourself. CPTSD Medicine is built on the philosophy of ending the era of outsourcing your healing. I will care for you, but I am not responsible for you. If you need someone else to take responsibility for your healing, or you’re not ready to transition from the therapy mindset to the training mindset, we are not a good fit to work together.

It depends on how much you put in, how strongly you believe in yourself, and how willing you are to lean in with vulnerability. If you’re devoted, believe in yourself, and engage fully in our 1:1 sessions and group support, you can expect rapid transformation. Your baseline screener scores will shift in noticeable ways. Continue implementing what you learn — whether by re-signing for another six months or working independently — and you’ll move toward durable resolution of your CPTSD.

No. This is exactly why you need the group. I stopped offering 1:1 work outside of a group container because the group experience is essential to resolving CPTSD. What comes up in a group setting doesn’t emerge in 1:1, and those moments are critical training grounds for releasing trauma energies.

"After years of feeling emotionally unsafe, Tanner provided practical tools that have forever bridged me back to inner stability."

"Tanner set me on the path to reclaiming my power and my soul's purpose in this lifetime, and I cannot thank her enough for that priceless gift."

"The unburdening techniques I learned from Tanner brought immediate emotional relief."