Overcoming Victim Mentality in CPTSD

Here’s what I know about overcoming the victim mentality in CPTSD Resolution. First and foremost, it is critical to stepping into and onto the path of an empowered CycleBreaking journey.

If you are reading this and you have the freedom of movement, earning and spending money, safety of your physical form, then this applies to you:

Parts of you or Entities within your internal system may have been the victim, but not you. Every time you drop into the victim role, you give away your power and you delay your Dream Result.

No one is likely to take accountability for how they harmed Parts of you. In all the clients I have seen over the years, none have had parents take responsibility for harm, a few have had siblings, and some have had partners. 

In a trauma ecosystem, everyone is swimming in trauma, running trauma energies, and playing the victim role. You can either stay right here in this frequency and be trapped for the rest of your life, or you can decide that there is something different for you. 

Once you entertain that concept of “different,” things begin to shift. This is your first transformative moment as a CycleBreaker. 

Here is the thing to beware of: just because you are considering something different than others in your trauma ecosystem, and may even do some things differently than those in your trauma ecosystem does not make you better. Maintaining humility is a massive mindset requirement for the CycleBreaker. 

The belief that there is no separation is a foundational creed for the CycleBreaker, but more on that in a future post. For now, I just want to help you avoid a known pitfall of choosing the CycleBreaking identity. 

Remember: different does not equal better when it comes to humans. 

What happens if you can put down the Victim Story and begin overcoming the mentality it generates within your in CPTSD Resolution journey? You become a leader. 

Leaders must locate Personal Power and limit their reliance on Circumstantial Power. If you are only willing to take productive, aligned actions, “as long as,” well, there is not much freedom in that. 

This is why I am so passionate about teaching humans with UnResolved CPTSD to learn how to Unburden Parts and Entities. Running Hurt Victim Energy is a perpetual trap of disempowerment.