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You know what you really want…
You have built success everywhere else. So why does love still feel like the place where you come up short?
I know what it is like to spend hours replaying conversations, diving into article after article, learning more than you ever wanted to know about narcissism, attachment styles, and red flags. When all you really wanted was steady, reliable love to come home to.
I know how exhausting it is to second-guess everything:
Am I asking for too much? Is this my fault? Will anyone ever be able to meet me where I am?
You are not wrong for wanting more. You are not needy for craving love that feels safe, supportive, and kind.
Imagine waking up and knowing:
The person beside you has your back.
Even when life gets messy, love is not a battlefield.
You do not have to explain away your needs or shrink to keep the peace.
That is what you are longing for. A love that matches the success you have already built everywhere else.
And I promise you, it is possible.
That is why I created the Red Flag Checklist for you. So you can stop doubting yourself and start seeing the truth right in front of you.
“Tanner’s guidance changed everything for me. It is the future of trauma recovery.”
You are ready to start enjoying life instead of suffering through it.
That makes us a perfect match. As an IFS Level 3 Practitioner, the only work I do is helping successful young professionals who feel trapped in an endless cycle of heartbreak.
I have found that the ones who “look good on paper” are often the least well-served in the mental health industry. It is my mission to change that — one survivor at a time.
As a former associate professor of Applied Developmental Psychology, I bring the precision, wisdom, and accountability. You bring the drive and devotion. Together, we will get you to the other side of CPTSD.